I had a friend remark about some of my recent Facebook postings, saying that I’ve become a “spiritual poster”. It felt like a back-handed compliment and I let it hurt my feelings – just a little bit. Then I came to my senses. There’s nothing wrong with being a “spiritual poster”.
I’ve felt myself growing closer to God and closer to my family since we have moved to Greenville. Part of that comes from not knowing a soul in town and having only God and your family for conversation! I have to say – it’s been a reluctant growth but a good experience so far. I feel myself hanging on to the old me – but when I really sit down and think about it, I wasn’t happy at all with who I had become. Working 3 jobs, never home, overworked, underpaid, always stressed out and always tired. That was me. Who wants that………really? I had no real time to dedicate to myself, my husband or our new son. And I kept making the same choices that lead to the same results – I was not in a good place. Add Chicago winters to the mix and it can be a lethal combination.
I think God heard me. He answered my prayers.
Since we’ve moved I’ve had a hard time adjusting to a different way of life. I now stay at home with our son, for the time being – I may go back to work in the summer or fall, but just ONE job – and part time! I now feel like I have time to help my family grow as God wants them to grow – and I’ve realized that I have time for God – I’m trying to make it a priority instead of trying to squeeze Him in. After all – He’s the reason we’re here and if we don’t act on His behalf we’re not doing what is best for us and those around us. My family and friends mean a lot to me and I want to act on God’s behalf and do what’s best for my family and my friends. I can feel myself opening up and listen to God and what His plan is for me. It’s a wonderful feeling. I’m thriving – not just surviving anymore.
Some days it can be hard to open up and I can feel myself sliding back into “Selfish Gina Mode” and I have to slow down and take a look at each of my blessings every day.
Today’s blessings:
I woke up / so did my husband / so did my son / everyone’s healthy / I got to work out / I have a playdate today / new friends / awesome church family / Easter is coming / and the dog let my son pet him for 5 whole minutes….
Don’t just survive – THRIVE!
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